Not all married men pay for escorts in NY.  However, there are certain factors that might push a man to request escort service in New York.

First of all,  a few married men pay for escorts  can do things with prostitutes that he wouldn’t do with his wife; either because he respects her as a woman and mother or because their wife is judge mental when it comes to sex and sexual play. If you are into your looks too much, a bit stiff during sex, find excuses not to do it, or a bit insecure about your sexuality, a man might try to fulfill his sexual fantasies outside the marriage. Every man and woman has some sort of sexual fantasies that they don’t tell about to their spouses. Some of these man women, unfortunately, will go and try to fulfill them on the side. Others, however, just leave them at that… fantasies.

why married men pay for escorts

why married men pay for escorts

Another reason’s all about sex and nothing else. They are not sitting on the bed talking about their day. They are not playing a board game and “enjoying” their smart banter. No….they are only interested in having sex. An by paying for it now he has no strings. As for the porn that is now an easy way to stimulate their minds with sex quickly. The internet allows that to happen unlike years ago men had Playboy magazines for that. The internet also allows the chance to meet up with an escort. Check How to Find Escort Service in NY? for more info.

Selfish behavior causes all this cheating activity. He’s not doing it because he can’t get it at home more than likely he’s just selfish and puts his family and everything on the line for sex.

From This guest article from Your Tango was written by Dawn Michael

He picks up the phone, gives his credit card information and begins to talk to her. His intentions are to get a quick release, and then go about his business.

As he begins to talk to her, she becomes more interesting. Her words are not just sexual but make him feel connected. The phone calls then become more regular and lengthy; some calls don’t even involve him having a sexual release. He finds himself connecting with her, maybe even wanting to see her.

This man may be any woman’s husband who has lost a connection with his wife. He may still be having sex with his wife, but has lost the intimacy involved, the love, understanding and caring.

He is lonely but does not even realize it; this call girl on the other line makes him feel better about himself. She listens to him, compliments him and makes him feel like a man with her intimate words and sexy sweet voice.

In this day and age where marriage often becomes the last relationship that couples work at, it slowly erodes over the years. The couple has children, a job, responsibilities, bills, and no time for the marriage itself.

Women have the advantage over men when it comes to connections in their lives; they have other women to talk to, hug, cry with, and laugh with.

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Men on the other hand don’t have those same connections with other men. Often times they have no other person in their life but their wife that they open up to emotionally with.

When a husband loses his connection with his wife, he will begin to feel alone and seek out the emotional intimacy through sex that he will pay for through a call girl, strip clubs or other women.

Many times these encounters are really about a husband needing the intimacy, the closeness, but not understanding how to achieve this with his wife anymore. The responsibility is on both a husband and wife to communicate with each other, and take the time to make the marriage a priority.

If you find that you are a man feeling this way, take the time to work on your marriage, set up a date night with your wife. If you are a wife and feel your husband slipping away, do something about it, take the initiative.

It does not take much to schedule time in your calendar for each other every week, but it will take everything when it has gotten to the point where your husband is paying for sex with a call girl.